The Power of Words

Door opening, welcoming Nervous to take the step into the professional world with an internship required to complete my English degree at Mount Mercy University, I came to the Catherine McAuley Center hoping to be able to use my passion of helping others through writing. Through my internship in the Development and Communications Department at CMC, I have been able to expand my passion for writing in a professional setting. I have also seen firsthand the impact the Center’s programs have on adult learners and women who are overcoming past trauma.

Having a loved one who has participated in other supportive living programs throughout the State of Iowa, the Transitional Housing Program caught my attention right away. The Transitional Housing Program offers a chance of a brighter future for women overcoming trauma, homelessness, and in some cases, substance abuse. The Center provides the women with a safe place to live while they take the necessary steps to overcome their Hand sharing pencils for writingpersonal obstacles, and offers classes for women to take to help build their life skills and to recover from trauma. While meeting with the Housing staff, I learned about a resident writing group that is offered to help the women with their writing skills and aid the recovery process. My own belief in the power of words to transform lives drove me to participate in the group.

In my first visit to the writing group,  I was fortunate enough to witness how the power of words can move women to greatness. To start off the class, we were told to write instructions of how we wake up and get ready for our days. While we began to write our answers, one of the women began talking to me, and in response, another woman whispered with a light in her eyes, “SHH!! This is my favorite time of the week.” The passion in the swift flick of her wrist forming words moved us to silence, and we too began to write.

A few minutes later, the women were asked if they wanted to share what they wrote. After one woman shared, the one who hushed us began to read her passage. Powerfully, she told us how she wakes up every morning, and how she has to overcome her personal obstacles every time her alarm goes off. She told us of her strength and power as a woman with the eloquence of Maya Angelou.Maya Angelou's picture and quote from her poem "And Still I Rise" Through the power of her words, she shared that despite her struggle of waking up with the knowledge of her past overwhelming her—she still thanks God for giving her another day to live, and she counts each day as a blessing. She gave me the strength to wake up every morning believing that life is worth living. Not only did writing help her in her daily struggle, it gave her the time and the tools to inspire others in the room to do the same.

Words are powerful. The writing group is giving these women the stepping stone to strengthen themselves through the empowerment of writing. Just like Maya Angelou wrote, “Up from the past that’s rooted in pain / I rise.”  In just one hour per week, these women are rising up and defeating their limitations through the power of writing.

By Abby Herb, Development and Communications Intern

Trauma-Informed Yoga Offered to Residents

Mindfulness brings awareness to the present moment, increasing feelings of safety and control.

Thanks to Support Services Coordinator, Chelsea DeLarm, residents now have the opportunity to practice “mindfulness”, or focusing awareness on the present moment’s thoughts and sensations, through yoga!

Yoga instruction at CMC is trauma-informed, meaning special care is taken to make the practice useful and accessible to women who have experienced past trauma. Chelsea says that she never touches or re-positions students, assures safety in the practice room by keeping her eyes open at all times so residents can close their eyes in meditation, and tailors poses to the physical abilities of people in the class.

Chelsea DeLarm

Support Services Coordinator, Chelsea DeLarm

For example, one recent yoga class included “chair yoga” with poses specifically designed for being seated in a chair so that women with physical disabilities could participate. Before becoming an instructor, Chelsea completed an intensive three-day certification process and continues to research how she can make yoga accessible to residents with specific challenges such as hearing impairment.

The goal of yoga at CMC is simply to focus on breathing and the mind-body connection. While concentrating in this way, residents are able to recognize why they are thinking or feeling what they are at that moment, increasing feelings of safety and control.

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Photo courtesy of VOA.

Chelsea says she can see that residents are often tense and unsure of themselves before class, but relaxed and confident after a half hour of yoga. Chelsea says residents often share a meal after their Thursday yoga class and become more open to talking and often comment, ” This is the only time I can relax,” and “I can move this side of my body more easily!”

Trauma-informed yoga is not unique to the Catherine McAuley Center. The practice has been used to aid people of all backgrounds throughout the world, including trauma-survivors in Somalia!

You can learn more about trauma-informed yoga by visiting Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga.

Women’s HERstory

Women's History postersWomen’s history (or HERstory) is an important topic here at the Catherine McAuley Center. An extraordinary group of women, the Sisters of Mercy, founded our organization in response to community need. They were inspired by Catherine McAuley, who created a place of refuge in 19th century Ireland where women could be treated with dignity and gain meaningful employment skills. How appropriate, then, that following International Women’s Day on March 8 and during Women’s History Month the ladies of our Transitional Housing program were featured on a broadcast from KGAN CBS 2 about the life-changing impact healthy relationships with other women and with the community has on residents’ outlook for the future.

In the report, Jennifer Tibbetts, Transitional Housing Program Manager, says of the program, “We recognize that women are relational, which means that they will grow and develop and become the woman that they really, truly are through the connection that they have with others and the community, and so that’s what we do here at the Catherine McAuley Center.” Connection with others extends beyond the relationships among women in the program to connection with women’s history and an understanding of historical female influence.

Transitional Housing residents have celebrated women’s HERstory in recent weeks through trivia games about the influence of historical female figures and watching the film Standing on My Sister’s Shoulders, which details the many ways black women contributed to the Civil Rights Movement. The staircase and hallways of their living space are decorated with posters that serve as reminders of the great contributions made by women in history and that each woman in the program is capable of making today.

HERstory is also celebrated throughout the year at the Catherine McAuley Center, most notably at the annual Women’s Equality Day celebration in August, where the community is invited to speeches given by residents about their own journeys to independence. Stay tuned for details on this year’s celebration and take a moment to watch one resident share her story here.

Wellmark Foundation Garden Grant

Cold winter weather is in full swing, but the outcomes of last summer’s community garden project, reported in the video below have us looking forward to another season of planting & harvesting to grow the impact of the garden! The video was produced by the Wellmark Foundation, who supported the project with a grant of more than $14,000.

Objectives of the project, which was designed for the residents of the Catherine McAuley Center’s Transitional Housing Program, included increasing the availability of fresh produce for residents, increasing residents’ knowledge and skills in using fresh fruits and vegetables in food preparation, and increasing residents’ community involvement and connection to resources through the community partnerships formed for the project. All objectives were met, as more than 800 pounds of produce were harvested throughout the growing season, which was then used in weekly cooking classes for the residents. Community volunteers participated in each stage of the project alongside the residents, from the construction of the raised beds, to garden club meetings, to cooking classes.

Residents have expressed the impact the project has had on their daily habits and have already put their new cooking skills tor practice, “I’ve been lucky to live somewhere with all the fresh produce. It’s made me want to cook differently and to think differently.” As another resident stated, “I didn’t know that I liked pesto so much. After learning how to make it in cooking group, I make it all the time with the basil from the garden.”

CMC plans to continue leading the garden effort in 2016 and hopes to make even more improvements in the coming year, including adding flower beds to attract beneficial insects and deter harmful pests. Adding flowering plants would also enhance the aesthetics of the space and could help to make it an inviting environment for meditation and one-on-one or group therapy sessions.

CMC thanks Wellmark and our many other community partners for the impact they’ve had on residents through sharing their time, skills, knowledge, and resources. For the residents who explain that “I haven’t had experiences like this before and I’m 40 years old,” you are fulfilling the Catherine McAuley Center mission of offering hope and opportunity!

Reflection on EmpowHer- Guest Post

HandshakeGuest post by Kelsey Kuester of Mount Mercy University Enactus

Mount Mercy University’s Enactus team continued their career readiness workshop, titled EmpowHer, with the Catherine McAuley Center (CMC) earlier this month. Three sessions were previously held by the Mount Mercy Enactus team to prepare the women of the Transitional Housing Program for future job opportunities. The first meeting was an informative session concerning resumes, cover letters, and job interview etiquette. The second was a shopping trip to Kohl’s to allow the women to purchase appropriate attire for a job interview. The most recent preparation session was a demonstration of mock interviews hosted by Mount Mercy Enactus students and advisors. All of these sessions led up to the final meeting, a new component of the EmpowHer prog ram this year, in which residents were actually able to participate in mock interviews, putting to use the knowledge and skills gained in previous sessions.

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Interviewers & interviewees receive instructions for the evening

As a member of the Mount Mercy Enactus team, we wanted to make these interviews as realistic and beneficial for the women as we possibly could. The Enactus team contacted Human Resource professionals from the community to conduct the interviews and provide constructive feedback. So that the women could practice answering questions relevant to their intended line of work, we contacted professionals from the industries residents were interested in. Representatives of TrueNorth, GoDaddy, Mercy Medical Center, US Cellular, and Aramark volunteered their time to assist with the mock interviews.

Each resident participated in two to three interviews, allowing her to experience multiple sets of questions and interview styles. Every step of the interview process, from check-in to follow-up was recreated. The women were expected to be on time for each interview and to check in at the front desk of the Center. Residents were just as equipped for the mock interviews as they would be for a real interview—they wore the professional clothing that they purchased at Kohl’s on our shopping trip and were expected to bring a copy of their resume. They even wrote thank-you cards addressed to the interviewers to get into the habit of doing so.

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Participants wrote thank you notes to the interviewers, a culmination of the entire EmpowHer project.

After all of the interviews were over, each resident that participated was given feedback from each professional with whom they interviewed. Patti Seda, a Human Resource professional from TrueNorth said, “It was obvious that the women had great coaching and great mentorship.” She also said, “The interviews went really well. The women were so well-prepared. I think this was a wonderful program. I’d like to have all of my candidates go through this program!”

One of the residents who participated in the program said, “The mock interview process was a confidence builder. It gave me an opportunity to find out what I needed to work on and where my weaknesses were within the interview process.” Our Enactus team is very excited to see what the women will do with the knowledge and confidence gained and where it will lead their careers in the future!

National Homeless Persons’ Memorial Day

Homeless Persons' Memorial Day

Last night, Catherine McAuley Center (CMC) staff, residents, supporters, and other community members gathered in remembrance of National Homeless Persons’ Memorial Day at the sites of the murders of Raymond Ursino and Sharon Mead, who were both homeless at the time of their deaths in Cedar Rapids in September.

National Homeless Persons’ Memorial Day, promoted at the national level by the National Coalition for the Homeless, has been hosted on December 21, the longest night of the year, since 1990. The day serves as a time to “bring attention to the tragedy of homelessness and to remember those who have died while living without a permanent home” (NCH Organizing Manual). The Cedar Rapids memorial was hosted by the CMC Transitional Housing Program, which provides housing and individualized, gender-responsive case management services to women who have experienced homelessness.

Raymond Ursino memorialAt the memorial sites, friends of Raymond and Sharon spoke of the qualities they most admired in the victims, “They always put a smile on your face.” Many CMC residents, not far removed from homelessness themselves, explained to the group, “It could have been me.”

The Catherine McAuley Center thanks everyone who attended the memorial for demonstrating the spirit of our foundresses, the Sisters of Mercy, by recognizing the dignity of each individual in the Cedar Rapids homeless community.

To see more highlights, please see the broadcast from KGAN. Please note a correction to the broadcast: the overflow shelter system that is noted is a coordinated effort of agencies and shelters across Linn County, including but not limited to the Catherine McAuley Center. If you or someone you know is in need of immediate housing assistance, please call 319-366-7999.

Enactus Continues Career-Readiness Initiatives for Residents

Career prepMount Mercy Enactus, a local chapter of a worldwide student entrepreneurship club, has renewed and expanded their partnership with the Transtional Housing Program (THP) at the Catherine McAuley Center (CMC) through a series of workshops on employment skills for residents . Enactus has been building relationships over the course of several years with the women of THP, who come to CMC in need of a stable environment in which they can overcome the barriers like mental health and substance abuse that led to their homelessness. This year these career-readiness initiatives have been funded by a grant from Wal-Mart.

Earlier this year, Enactus members worked with residents to develop  résumés they can use as they apply for jobs. Each resident was given a flash drive on which they can store their résumé for future updates. Most recently, Macy Demeulenaere and Kelsey Kuester, two Enactus students, accompanied the women of THP on a shopping trip to Kohl’s in search of professional clothing.

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A resident of the Transitional Housing Program prepares to check out at Kohls with her new professional attire

Each woman was given a budget of $100 to spend on clothing that would be appropriate for a future interview or current job. “Our goal was to help the women find something that they would feel confident in. Feeling good about your appearance is an important part of the interview process, and we want the ladies to be confident and prepared,” said Kelsey. The Enactus team gave guidance on outfits that would be appropriate for each resident’s career goals and helped the women to find great deals. “Whether they needed new jeans, shoes, socks, or blouses, we wanted to be sure they could purchase anything they needed to be successful,” explained Macy.

The women will don their new clothing in a mock-interview seminar Enactus will host in January. Residents will dress the part in their new professional attire as they participate in a mock-interview with an Enactus member targeted toward her unique career goals. Jennifer Tibbetts, THP Manager, explains that the Enactus students are uniquely positioned to work with the women in such a capacity. “Enactus students have a skill set that allows them to critique performance to help prepare the women, but to communicate non-judgmentally.”

The compassion the Enactus students have for the women of the Transitional Housing Program and the wider community is evident as they share about the Enactus-CMC partnership. “Everything we do with CMC… has helped us get in touch with the community,” said Macy. Of her hopes for the women for the remainder of this year’s partnership Kelsey remarked, “I want them to enjoy going to work and to do something that they love.” The Catherine McAuley Center extends our deepest thanks to Mount Mercy Enactus for their long-time support of the Transitional Housing Program as a whole and for the care they have shown to each individual resident!

Retreat Encourages Self-Discovery

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The annual THP retreat is a time for residents to self-reflect, connect with nature, and build bonds with other program participants.

Each year, the Transitional Housing Program (THP) at the Catherine McAuley Center hosts a retreat away from the Center’s main facility for program residents and THP alumni with the goal of providing a setting in which the women can contemplate their own lives without having to worry about the stressors of everyday life.  For the past four years, the retreat has been centered around a curriculum that focuses on creating this safe environment for self-discovery through artistic, musical, and interpersonal activities.

Pink figureHousing staff explained that because every person learns differently, these creative activities allow the women to use many techniques to explore their inner-selves. These techniques include writing in a journal throughout their time on the retreat, listening to music and then describing how the lyrics apply to their own lives, spending quiet time in meditation and reflection on nature, creating a “stress box” that contains coping mechanisms for handling stress, and creating their own “inner-goddesses”, which are physical models representing the positive characteristics each resident sees in herself.

One resident crafted a bright and lively pink figure, and explained how it was representative of herself by saying “I may seem dark on the outside, but on the inside, I’m tall and bright pink.” Another skillfully crafted a female Samurai warrior that represents strength, honor, and tradition. She explained that the figure was a “wise woman” with many different layers. She keeps the model in her room where she sees it each day as a reminder to not give up hope and noted that this is a particularly hard exercise to do because it requires you to “dig into yourself to find your inner being.”

CraftsAn agreed-upon highlight of the retreat occurred during an activity led by alumni who have graduated from the Transitional Housing Program and are now leading self-sufficient lives. Alumni asked each woman to write a poem about herself then read it aloud to the group. Though staff were present, it was the current and former residents who controlled the direction of the conversation and provided the overwhelming sense of openness and encouragement that resulted. This activity that is easily described as the most powerful experience of the retreat demonstrated the strength of current residents and the transformation that program alumni have experienced.

“The retreat is something that helps you redefine how you see yourself. Through activities that you are involved in you can just take a closer look at things that help you improve yourself,” noted one resident. The Catherine McAuley Center believes in dignity and empowerment, and that each person has the potential to create and live a purposeful and fulfilling life. We are overjoyed to see the women in our program beginning to believe those things about themselves.

No one at CMC stands alone

As Transitional Housing Program manager, Jennifer Tibbetts, shared at the 19th Annual Catherine’s Tea:

“The women of Catherine McAuley Center’s Transitional Housing Program come from all walks of life, yet there are many common threads of experience among those entering the program. One of the most common is that of being a survivor of trauma. Trauma can take many forms including abuse, neglect, and instability. The experience of trauma has been shown to effect mental health, physical health, and emotional well-being. Here at CMC we seek to provide a safe and nurturing place to heal and grow. One of the first steps in this process is to learn that no one is alone.”

Each woman entering the program completes the Adverse Childhood Experience survey, which measures traumatic experiences and identifies the risk for barriers later in life, including an increase for substance abuse, chronic mental health issues, suicide, and diseases such as diabetes and heart disease. In the following video taken during the Transitional Housing Program group testimony at Catherine’s Tea, women step forward and backward to demonstrate the percentage of CMC residents who have experienced traumatic situations that are included on the survey.

The Catherine McAuley Center exists to offer hope and opportunity to women who have experienced this kind of trauma, and provides tools for them to build a better future for themselves. To learn more about the Transitional Housing Program, click here. Many thanks to our volunteers who took the stage at Catherine’s Tea to present this group testimony!

Dine Out for the Sleep Out

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The CMC team constructing their shelter at the 2013 Sleep Out for the Homeless event

Tomorrow, October 8, 2015, Granite City Food & Brewery will be donating 10% of your bill to the Sleep Out for the Homeless, an annual event that benefits CMC’s Transitional Housing Program, as well as programs across the Cedar Rapids community that work to prevent homelessness and alleviate the needs of those experiencing it.

At the Sleep Out, participants experience homelessness for a night as they construct temporary shelters out of cardboard and spend the night outdoors. The event is a chance to raise awareness and learn about homelessness across the nation and in our own community.

Stay tuned for more info about joining the Catherine McAuley Center team for this year’s Sleep Out! In the meantime, we hope you’ll dine out to support the Sleep Out tomorrow! Simply present this coupon to your server. We thank you for your support!